It seems Obama is gearing up to deal with yet another controversial issue that is near and dear to my heart.
Recently, during a YouTube question and answer session with Robert Gibbs (Obama’s incoming White House Press Secretary), a viewer asked if this would be the administration that repeals the country’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy on gays in the military.
A resounding yes.
I never understood why we had to have this ridiculous policy to begin with, but I do realize that there are millions of fearful people in this country… otherwise kind-hearted people who don’t realize that their fear of that which they don’t understand has made them bigots…
… Rather than try to have a little compassion, perhaps educating ourselves a bit… we tend take the easy way out, as a result becoming cowards.
Gay people have always fit neatly into the “we don’t understand” category.
Why is it that to so many people, a simple lack of understanding equals carte blanche permission to hate, judge and discriminate?
Back to the subject at hand…
I’ve heard all the arguments- absolute nonsense- that by allowing gays in the military, their assigned unit’s “cohesion” is in jeopardy… as in, if a gay man falls in love with another man in his unit, he may sacrifice the good of the unit’s mission by putting his lover’s safety higher on the priority list than that of the unit’s…
You know… should they find themselves in that situation.
That argument became moot when the military began allowing men and women to serve in the same unit… would not a straight guy who’s in love with a woman in his unit potentially act in the exact same fashion?
… And yet, nobody’s raising the argument in that particular scenario, now are they?
The bottom line is that lots of straight people feel “icky” that they may be serving- eating, sleeping, soldiering- with a member of the same sex, someone who could potentially develop the hots for them.
That makes all kinds of sense.
It’s ironic how some of the world’s bravest men and women so staunchly support a policy that gives them an excuse to be cowardly.
The good news is that times are changing, and we finally have a leader who is truly and unapologetically against discrimination- in all its ugly forms.
That truly is something to be proud of.